well friends, I am back from Colorado. Colorado, what an awesome, beautiful place. Filled with gorgeous mountains and awesome beer. I spent alot of time with My family conecting and doing things I won't tell you about. Lots of time with the baby, time at the zoo, pony rides, good times were had by all. Colorado is full of fit, white people, and also filled with religious people. It's weird. I spent lots of time feeling weird and kind of out of place. My sister has lots of academic friends who I suspect she wouldn't want to know that I'm a sex worker, the rest of the friends have babies, and they all like to sit around and talk about their babies together and how cute they all are.
I have chihuahuas, not babies, though I do enjoy sitting around with other chihuahua lovers and exchanging photos, I guess it's sorta the same thing.
I did alot of cooking for My family, which was awesome. I think people with full time jobs and kids always appreciate things like when you fold their laundry and when you make them a home cooked meal and do the dishes.
I did have some annoyances via the phone within the first few days, and then I realized...this was about as close to a vacation as I'll veer get, so turn the phone off and don't deal with drama and rudeness! it's really that simple.
and I'm sorry boys, but you can't booty call me at 3 am, not when I'm on vacation with My family and not when I have to get up at 530 AM to babysit a teething one year old and not when you haven't gotten tested and not when we haven't fucked yet so I'm not even sure it's gonna be worth My time.
And there will also be no dramamatic phone calls from friends hjaving meltdowns. I mean, don't you people GET IT!? I have been thru hell and back in the last year, more than most people will probably ever go through in their entire lives, and all I wanted was a break. SO, it took alot of effort, and I really just had to force Myself to take a break. I had a few looooong intense days of computer work but other than that it was all babysitting singing songs and taking goofy pictures.
I won't share the baby pics with you, but here's some food porn
yes, I grilled, outside, in Colorado, while I drank awesome beer.
I made lime/tequila/cilantro chicken breastst and grilled peppers and onions and corn and then made radical chicken tacos out of it
and I also made a bangin lentil soup, which I put in the freezer so I can feed My family even after I have left!
also made sauce I put in the freezer and some other tidbits and goodies
My sister had Terrel Davis' mile high salute bbq sauce. So I made slow roasted baby back ribs with it, and roasted beets from her friends garden and some greens.
I was supposed to go shoot in Denver with some peeps but I cancelled it, for a multitude of reasons, it was feeling awesome being on vacation, and I also had just gotten booked for a hirsute shoot for www.hairykink.com with Bianca Stone so I had started growing out My bush again, but it was at a weird stubbly not really attractive stage. So I hoped that instead we could all just hang out and not shoot, which I think is a really important part of any business relationship anyhow. But Colorado is so like NYC in so many ways. Mainly lots of people will say OMG your in town lets hang out, but then not make any plans, and also people won't
want to drive very far to hang out with you, even though you just came across the country and have no car, and also people will be like., oh you were in town I had no idea!? even though you tweeted about it blogged about it and texted about it for weeks beforehand and during. It makes Me laugh! And makes Me really appreciate the people who take the time to set things up and hang out and follow through.
I'll be back in CO again around XXXmas and I'll be doing sessions once again with Mistress Jenni Fishnets, who is fabulous and we will be tearing apart some slaves together!
My trip back east wasn't very awesome, I had a layover which kept getting delayed and delayed and delayed and I spent waaaaaay too long in the airport, got home somewhere around 330 AM and then Miss Bettie Bondage showed up promptly in the AM!w
e had some big plans! I finally got to meet her new man (who has passed the Bella Vendetta test btw) he showed up with a bouquet of flowers for Me that are sitting right in front of Me being lovely as I write this
we all went to the BCHAMC Lobsterfest. Good times were had by all. 80s metal, lots of leather and of course a ridiculous amount of food. I ate. And ate and ate.h
here's some lobster and here's Bettie and I eating some cake
the day after that I had My first session in Lady Fire's dungeon space in chicopee MA. It was a long session but a very fun one and I really liked being in Her space. SO Western MA slaves will be happy to know they can book real time BDSM sessions with Me in chicopee!
The day after THAT I went to go see motherfucking Skeletonwitch and Goddamn HAVOK!
fuck yes, after weeks with hippies and way too much Michael Fronti it was absolutely perfect. Bev Thompson, aka the documentrix came with Me and we photographer Skeletonwitch for an article I'm wriitng about them for a tattoo magazine. So, it was awesome directing dudes, and I managed to get everyone shirt off for photos, and no ones girlfriend can even be mad at Me.
Skeletonwitch, brutal metal made by a bunch of absolute sweethearts.
t have any photos to share with you yet, you'll have to wait for those.
at any rate:
life has returned to semi normal, for at least this week before I take off to NY again.I'll be back on cam tonight and again friday night starting around 9 pm
you can find Me herew
and I am of course available for custom skype sessions while I am home, and also sessions in the dungeon
you can go here to learn more about booking a session with Me: www.BellaVendetta.com
see you all next week with a normal update that will most likely involve some tits, although, LOOK at that photo of Bettie and I...our tits are ridiulous!